The Train of Life
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
When you think of love, what comes to mind? Do you see an image of two people embracing? Do you see a breathtaking sunrise or sunset? Do you think of a luscious dessert? Does your mind drift to a favorite vacation location? Do you think of your family or a life-long friend? Perhaps a family pet comes to mind.
On Saturday, October 22, 2022, heaven gained a beloved member of this church, Celia Dye Irwin. Celia lived her 93 years on this Earth exemplifying 1Corinthians 13:4-7. I had the privilege of knowing Celia on many different levels for over sixty years. She was a neighbor, babysitter, second mom, God fearing woman, role model, 4-H advisor and friend. There is no woman I admired or respected more. From my earliest memory, Celia demonstrated what was important in life. As a young child, I remember spending time in and around The Presbyterian Church. Celia needed to stop by church frequently to drop something off, chat with Pastor Jack, help with a project, or cook. She was all about taking care of other people. Celia saw the worth and value in all people, even the tough ones! She spoke kindly to those she met. She had a knack for making people feel
welcome and important. Life lessons were taught in the garden, around the dinner table, and on the front porch while snapping beans and shucking peas. She lived her life thinking of others before herself. While her death leaves a void for those of us who had the privilege of knowing her, our hearts are full of her love. She has left us with a lifetime of memories to treasure until we meet again. Celia left a blueprint for us to follow in order to live a full life.
The following poem provides me with peace and comfort while inspiring me to reflect on my own life. What will others remember about you when you leave your seat empty on “The Train of Life”?

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